What's going on?

That's what I'd like to know. I'm leaving for Michigan in 21 days and yet the world is falling apart around us. Over a week ago we spent all weekend skyping really long and it was the best time that i've ever had with him online. It felt almost as if we were actually in the same room instead of still 4000 miles away.

But then he started working every day for the past 9 (tonight is number 10) days and we haven't had much time at all. I've been feeling really bad about it because I know it's not his fault that he has to work so much. His boss is a real organisatorial jackass and has made him work these past 9 days all closing shifts. It's seriously cut into our time together but its not like we can do much about it. He's made so much money so that is a bit of compensation.

Well my problem is this: He blames himself. He says he feels really distant from me because he's had to work so much. Then again I blame myself because I'm not more understanding. I should support him not get all upset.